The sex of a child matters in education questions, however, the person of parents and their expectation also should be considered at the answer to the given question.  Education of girls
Mums who are bringing up girls, face a certain set of difficulties. Most often meeting problem character traits which owing to the big prevalence can be carried to stereotypes are more low described. Girls more emotional Many mums notice, that at girls at younger age often varies moods: from sad to cheerful, from friendly to sad – unlike boys who are more inclined to "go down stream". To thicket argue and contradict Girls they start to speak earlier and owing to certain features of development faster and is better get verbal skills. Yes it is good, on the one hand. On the other hand you should deal with all whims, objections and other displays of process of formation of the person. Emotionally aggressive Boys show the aggression by physical methods whereas girls attack the offender verbal means: spiteful comments, hearings, can not communicate, exclude from games and in every possible way ignore. Education of boys According to mums, the most problem aspects of educational process of boys the following: Boys are aggressive and active physically They it is constant in the course of game: rush, jump, fall, use furniture as springboards, fall. Boys are always ready, something to break or damage. To occur it for two reasons: because of high physical activity and low level of empathy, which influences that boys badly understand what to "break or"damage"it it is bad. Verbal dialogue right at the beginning represents certain difficulty Verbal skills at boys start to develop later, than at girls. Differs as well style of these skills. Girls are more inclined to discuss some variants, boys express only that they precisely wish to receive to take or make. For example, the situation with a choice to look what cartoon film. The girl will discuss with you both and your variants, the boy will stand on the, that «Покемоны» - the best cartoon film. Any activity transform into competition They compete with contemporaries, with brothers and sisters, with parents. If you raise two boys sometimes the passion to rivalry helps if you want that children have fast put on or have fast eaten, etc. However, stereotypes not always work "Typically man's" or "typically female" behaviour meets at both floors. That education was not for you a nightmare, it is necessary to define, that causes attacks of bad mood and as with it to struggle in your child: It the noisy child. Advantage: your son grows physically active and sociable what to allow it to take in the future a good place in a life. That the child not «demented you» and has not carried apartment, it is necessary to undertake a number of measures: every day the child should play actively open air, since the early childhood he can be written down in sports section. She is able to flatter and achieve the, forcing you to change the point of view. Advantage: the girl grows the persevering. At it obvious verbal talent, she is able to convince people of the point of view. Support this talent, communicate with it on themes which are interesting to both. If your opinions do not coincide, you as mum do not want, that it did something, try to keep cool and remain at the opinion, as though furiously child with you did not argue. It breaks toys, takes them to pieces. Advantage: the girl wishes to know, how they are arranged, it is a sign of intellectual curiosity. In that case buy the toys specially intended for process of knowledge, a toy which understand and gather. If the child simply takes pleasure because breaks, hide expensive toys until she will not learn them not to spoil. What you think, there will be an answer to a question on the one who is easier for raising? Correctly, if to refuse stereotypes complexities in education of the child do not depend on a floor, all is defined by character and the person. Do not assign to children of unjustified expectations. Concentrate on development of the child in a correct direction. Always find advantages even in the most "harmful" character traits, as, probably, they "harmful" only in your eyes.
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