Old and grown wise a life the person sits at a foot of mountain and tells to younger generation history about how he all life across all Earth searched for the ideal woman. It communicated with thousand women, has travelled all countries. Searched everywhere where only it is possible for itself to present.
Naturally, one of its listeners sets a question:
- Tell, so you have met that unique which you could name the ideal woman? On what the elderly person has answered:
- Yes, has found! But unfortunately, she too searched for the ideal man. Whether there are ideal wives? And ideal husbands? In answer attempts some sadly and for a long time become silent, recollecting ljubovno-marriage experience of set of friends, acquaintances and relatives. Some cheerfully say that, of course, happen - and give an example from own biography of times of a kindergarten or an episode from a classical American melodrama. But the most interesting, that under terms «the ideal wife» and «the ideal husband» each of us understands absolutely different things. To that an example of opinion of users of the FORUM on ИРП "Farm": JZ wrote (): the Family - it some kind of the compromise between its two half! Without self-sacrifice of a family it will not turn out... And speech about mutual self-sacrifice. I.e. it is necessary to refuse a number of habits to both and to both in many respects to go each other on a meeting... This victim for the sake of love (or money), for the sake of children, for the sake of struggle against loneliness... The Question in that who and on what compromises and concessions is ready to go... Wineta wrote (): Councils there can be a whole heap. Only all of them are senseless, as while you are favourite and desired - you the ideal wife even if you are not able to prepare at all, wash floors of times in half a year and hate its friends... Princess Lydia wrote (): the Ideal husband it is boring... What with it to do?... To put and prays?.... Will steal yet do not give the God... And so under myself I will make, I will find... "I blinded from this. That was".....)) And in general, the main thing for me for example that the husband perceived me such what I is actually)) Savin mum wrote ():
1. Absence of bad habits, such as "grass", пивко, - well this my personal, it is possible to drink tobacco certainly, but not to поросячего squeal, tobacco (a smell) I do not transfer
2. The valid relation to the woman
3. Ability on sympathy and a pardon
4. Tolerance (ladies too have lacks)
5. Economy (well though the husband should be able to glue wall-paper)
6. An educational level... It is desirable not more low, than at the wife...
7. Age - plus a minus of 5 years from your age (oh so it is pleasant when you in the childhood one animated cartoons looked, one books read)
8. Earnings, habitation - business acquirable and not the most important
9. Children... Well it is not obligatory to love them to madness, but at least that disgust was not caused by thought on them
10. A hobby - any... Sports, cars, telescopes, ships to glue... The main thing that did not take a great interest strongly in it
11. A-a-a... Readiness to live the life (i.e. without mum/daddy/grandmother and their councils)
12. Responsibility... For the wife, for the child... For itself eventually (health and so forth the things connected with safety)... And further - at everyone the requirements. Dexter wrote (): At us the ideal husband - who gives the salary to the wife and on a muzzle does not beat. The rest is already unimportant. As you can see, opinions on so interesting question absolutely disperse. And what experts think in this occasion? Psychologists have developed accurate criteria on which it is possible to estimate «the ideal husband» and «the ideal wife». Compare beloved (and) to «the scientific standard». The ideal wife: 1. She never speaks the spouse: "Aha, I warned you!" Also finds the light party in its each error. 2. When the husband is angry or afflicted by something, it does not stick to it with inquiries, and easy waits the period of its bad mood.
3. She thanks the husband for the taken out dust, for the washed up ware and the ironed linen and never strikes a pose: "And anybody for homework of thanks does not speak to me!" 4. She always laughs at its jokes and does not give it uninvited councils.
5. When the husband addresses to it with the request, she agrees to help it, not showing thus, however much endows for the sake of it, and keeps good mood. 6. If it refuses to it, is not started up in long justifications why has arrived so, instead of differently and does not provoke it to finding-out of relations.
7. She watches that it always had in a stock pure socks, shirts and underwear. 8. She asks what to make to it for a breakfast or for a supper.
9. It does not flirt at its presence with extraneous men. 10. It prefers the husband before children, orders to concede to a daughter to the daddy an armchair, to the son to muffle loudness of the musical centre. 11. It is not jealous it of work, releases in business trips and does not row because of the overtime. 12. If he feels guilty and makes to it of an apology, she forgives him and does not come back any more to the given theme. The ideal husband: 1. When the wife asks the ideal husband something to make on the house, he speaks "yes" or "is not present", always kindly explains the reason of the refusal. 2. If the wife to it about something tells, he attentively listens to it, does not read thus the newspaper, does not look at the TV screen. 3. Leaving the house, he asks, whether it is necessary to glance on a return way to shop or in a dry-cleaner. 4. In all conflicts of the wife to girlfriends or to fellow workers it accepts its party.
5. He is capable to buy without any occasion to it the big pie, a bunch of flowers, spirits, pineapple, the book or an ice-cream box.
6. He never promises what cannot execute. 7. He always notices, if the wife is upset by something or has got tired, and asks, than it is possible for it to help. Also helps.
8. It never clicks the switch of television channels before a nose of the spouse looking at the screen. 9. At restaurant, during an invited supper or during an anniversary contrary to etiquette it sits down a table near to the wife. 10. In the evening he takes a shower and uses a deodorant, every day changes socks and always lowers behind itself a toilet bowl seat.
11. In the day off it rises earlier it and brings to it coffee in a bedroom or makes a breakfast on all family. 12. From time to time he embraces her, irons and kisses without that its caresses have there and then come to the end sex. Has counted up pluses and pluses of the favourite person and has understood, that to an ideal to us as to … … And in general, ideal people (just as ideal relations) - concept subjective. Each person accepts something individual, and that seems perfection to one, can seem a grey commonness to another. And instead of reproaching yourselves with ability to prepare only half-finished products, inability to modernise the Kama Sutra to iron man's shirts, - think what YOU - such (ая) as are - for someone can be object of sincere admiration. Even if are not entered in any standards... Web-Маня Wrote (): Ideal people are not present and will not be. Ideal marriages by that-more! I consider, главно all the same love! If to love each other all skirmishes will fray... And it is not important, what you the mistress... Simply make so, that when it comes from work - you meet its gentle smile and a kiss... And then all will be remarkable!
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